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Contents
Background Information
What is a folk story?
Why folk stories are valuable in counseling?
Bibliography
Courtship, Marriage, Gender Roles, Domestic Violence
Courtship
Marriage
Wives' Roles
Husbands' Roles
Domestic Violence
Conclusion
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Story - The Shrew: Animal Talk and the Nosy Wife
Through an accidental happening, a young farmer learns to understand
the language of animals. However he is warned not to reveal this secret
or he will die.
At home, his wife becomes curious and suspicious when he laughs (at animal
talk) without her knowing why. She insists on knowing what is so funny,
but he refuses to tell her. This infuriates her. (1) She keeps nagging
and nagging for the answer (2), and he keeps yelling that it is none of
her business.
His wife's constant nagging and her refusal to obey him (3) irritate
him so much that he is afraid he might blurt out the truth and die. To
get some help, he asks her to run and fetch the priest.
While she is gone, he overhears the rooster in the yard ridiculing him.
"Look," the rooster says to the other animals, "I can rule
over so many hens in this yard, and that man cannot even control one woman."
All the animals look at him and laugh. (4)
He then decides to behave differently. When his wife returns saying the
priest is on the way, the husband takes off his belt and beats his wife
unconscious. (5) The priest arrives, surveys the scene, and leaves immediately.
When the wife regains consciousness, she is no longer interested in hearing
explanations. And she was not nosy any more. (6)
1. The Shrew refuses to be subservient to her husband.
2. She stands up for herself and directly confronts and contradicts her
husband.
3. She can be independent, determined, curious, ambitious, unfaithful,
willful, disobedient.
4. These qualities are generally unacceptable to a husband and to the
wider community.
5. To make her subservient, the Shrew is usually beaten or killed.
6. Shrew stories usually end when the husband forces the wife to become
a docile subservient woman.
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